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Help w/ Introducing others to Anime - Methods/Procedure

Sometimes threads like these almost sound like we're trying to convert the godless masses and save them from a horrible existence without anime. Not everyone needs to be indoctrinated, even close friends. I never felt the need to introduce others into anime, so I just let the issue come up naturally, if at all. What's so wrong about that?

Sometimes threads like these almost sound like we're trying to convert the godless masses and save them from a horrible existence without anime. Not everyone needs to be indoctrinated, even close friends. I never felt the need to introduce others into anime, so I just let the issue come up naturally, if at all. What's so wrong about that?

Touche, however, I often do feel the need to counter the reaction "eww, that's the stuff with the tentacles, right?"

It's not always easy being an anime fan. Sure, anime has become much more popular over the years, and it's getting more respect now than ever before, but try as it might, it can't completely shake off connotations of kiddy shows and pornography. Still, there's better ways to deal with anime-haters than getting angry, arguing until you're blue in the face, or being an ass. Forget trying to counter with stuff like “Well actually, there are many neat series that involve other things” or even the Spirited-Away-Won-An-Oscar angle.

It's all in the attitude, guys. Play it off. Don't let them rile you up. If you can make fun of yourself or take all the jokes in stride, they'll be less tempted to take potshots at you. Hell, they'll even want to be your friend. Take the following real-life exchange.

“Yeah, I watch anime, it's pretty cool.”
“Man, you're a wuss. I can't believe you watch Pokemon and stuff.”
“Hey, hey, don't diss the Pokemon. That show is friggin' awesome.”
“Are you serious??”
“Dude, they're like the X-men of the animal world. You just don't know.”

The other person will be so confused s/he won't even think to keep jabbing at you. Another example:

“You sick pervert; I bet you spend all your time watching those nasty porno cartoons!”
“Yeah, all the time. I have like, WALLS of it back home.”
“I bet you even watch that nasty poop-eating porn.”
“EVERYDAY. There's this one where this chick craps in a bowl and mixes it with her Cheerios. It's so hot.”
“… are you serious?”
“No.”

Believe me, you'll make friends so much faster when you're not so wrapped up in being angry.