Forum - View topicNEWS: Japan's 1st Boys-Love Bar to Open in Tokyo's Akihabara
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glitteringloke
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and to think, i'll be in japan when it opens...
i'm not sure i'm brave enough to venture in though.... |
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neocloud9
Posts: 1178 Location: Atlanta, GA |
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Go for it, Loke! I'll be with you in spirit! |
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Dark Elf Warrior
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This is weird, I agree. I'm sorry to those who are all like "OMG! Yes!", but I find this weird. I also find it degrading to the REAL gay men of Japan. I honestly don't think real gay men will even want to be hired for this. Gay men don't want to entertain females, they want to entertain other males. Besides, I think I read once on here on the old Chicks on Anime article, that real gay men in Japan actually don't like yaoi, as they see it as a fetishizing fantasy of what homosexuality is for women. Really, I feel bad for the gays, I know they're not for this. Those fujoshi have doujinshi and yaoi-manga to look at.
That would be really funny if real gay men did come and make the young girl customers uncomfortable! Believe it or not, fujoshi girls really have no idea what real homosexuality is, that would be a reall wake up call when they find out that yes there really are men who like other man, and no it's not like how it is in a yaoi. |
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tuxedocat
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You're scenario sounds like another Otaku fantasy. First of all, Young girls are probably not allowed in. Second, I doubt that the mature fujoshi would mind a bit if real gay men showed up to share in the fun. I live in the San Francisco Bay area and know a few men who would enjoy this place immensely. |
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egoist
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If those are like the pubs over here, yes they can. They just can't drink alcohol. Besides since they're doing something this fancy I doubt they will be relying on alcohol sales only, and that's where young people kick in. |
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tuxedocat
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Well, I'm not sure what alcohol laws are over there, but I'll still stand by my statement. I just don't think that many "young" girls under a certain age will have the money. These places are usually expensive. |
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egoist
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What isn't expensive over there? If they're able to live there, then I wouldn't be surprised they're able to go to a fancy bar over there. This is pretty much a short definition of the law regarding minors entering pubs over here(UK):
I doubt Japan is stricter than that, but then again I don't know much about their laws. |
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Ktimene's Lover
Posts: 2242 Location: Glendale, AZ (Proudly living in the desert) |
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Japan already has too many adaptations of visual novels and light novels that often end up in the realm of moe/LGBT-related stuff/harem/ecchi. Are they really that desperated they would open up to this level of potential absurdity?
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egoist
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It's their culture. It's not an absurd to them. I sincerely don't see the difference between this and X-Men/Star Trek conventions, or perhaps their usual maid cafe. Come on, there are people wearing maid outfits, and I've never seen that in real life. Next up: Transformers cafe. Drank your oil yet? |
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eyeresist
Posts: 995 Location: a 320x240 resolution igloo (Sydney) |
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This was a kind of ultra-PC response, and probably not accurate (how can you speak for all the gay men in Japan?). Why aren't you worried about the feelings of all the poor martial artists, what with all the unrealistic fighting in animes? A: It's just entertainment. |
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Dorcas_Aurelia
Posts: 5344 Location: Philly |
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The difference is that martial arts doesn't generally affect an individual's life outside of training or competitions; sexual orientation does. Also, it's far less common for people to mistake the outrageous maneuvers of fictional martial arts as real than the artificial relationships in BL stories.
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poonk
Posts: 1490 Location: In the Library with Philip |
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Y'know, I enjoy BL but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't particularly enjoy this. I'd be too concerned about if the guys (genuinely gay/bi or not) felt awkward being ogled. Same goes for butler-/maid-type cafes, or kind of like how I would never enjoy being on the receiving end of a stripper. Not that I don't enjoy a bit of eye candy (though the stereotypical [male] stripper isn't my type) but I'm always on some level wondering how the person playing the "candy" feels about it. Oh and just for the record (in case I didn't make it obvious)-- my slight distaste is not because my BL "fantasies" would be shattered by seeing real gay guys. Please, I don't live in a vacuum. |
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configspace
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Regarding most of the above..
About hosts in general, I wouldn't worry about the guys one bit. I think we might be trying to apply our own ultra-PC sensibilities to another place where it's really not of any concern. Those who are there choose to be there, and there are always many applicants. The only downside is the heavy drinking and smoking. Anyways, see the old documentary http://www.thegreathappinessspace.com/ and this for an update;
as well as: http://forum.gaijinpot.com/showthread.php?69454-Becoming-a-Host/page4 and various youtube videos of actual hosts http://www.youtube.com/user/SetsunaSaigami http://www.youtube.com/user/julesdilla As far as sexual orientation and all this maddening seriousness goes , it has never historically been like the western modern rigid ideal of i.e. "being gay is who you are". It is interesting to see how the culture was like during the Edo period and earlier with regards to sexuality in general. "Yaoi" and "yuri" were present in fiction and real life up to 1000 years ago and it was no big deal for both men and women. Nobody blinked an eye at sexual orientation and no one used it as a means self identification. See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_minorities_in_Japan#Japanese_definiti]ons_of_gender_and_sexuality
The Tale of Genji, ~1000 AD, held as high literature, is aside from a political drama and romance, an ancient example of harem, archetypal strong effeminate bi- male character and yaoi and fujoshi (by Lady Murasaki), rolled into one e.g.
that actually reflected more of reality than some would think! Even the current situation presented here in its tamer fictional BL-themed bar form here has real historical cultural precedence, even the danso (cross-dressing) part (see onnagata): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_Japan
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FYI the converse situation with women comforting other women is the same btw, though less documented. There are shunga and ukiyo depicting such scenes (with dildos, lol) and are considered highly valuable. Again, none of this implied any gender or sexual identity, but simply an activity; so it's ridiculous to assume any kind of offense since the participants aren't claiming to represent anyone, likewise with the BL bar. |
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