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Agent355
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 9:34 pm
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razberry_yum wrote: |
The difference comes in when people attack fans who aren't upset at the rape=love tropes because they recognize it as being fictional and are able to enjoy it because it is fictional. I mean, would you call people who enjoy shows like Dexter being pro-murder (I wanted to come up with an anime equivalent but my mind is drawing a blank)? No, that would be silly, right? So why can't the same be applied to folks who enjoy other imaginary characters/relationships and not have to be in fear of being labeled as such and such? Pedophilia is a very serious crime and I just think there's something disturbing at the ease by which people throw around that term to apply to anime characters whom by their very imaginary nature cannot be victims. It feels like we're diluting the real serious issue of pedophilia somehow by doing that, especially when I question people's motives for using that word as a weapon. |
You launched a pre-emptive attack, then.
PsychoPearl posted:
PsychoPearl wrote: | Ciel is a child.. There shouldn't be a romance between him and Sebastian in the 1st place.. |
There were no attacks or aspersions towards fans in that statement, just PsychoPearl's opinion against adult/child romances.
You responded by attacking PsychoPearl's ability to distinguish between reality and fantasy:
razberry_yum wrote: |
Ciel is a character who doesn't exist. No offense, but if you're unable to understand the difference between imaginary 2-D characters and real life people, the problem is not with the people who created the fictional characters or the people who are able to separate reality from fiction, the problem is with YOU. |
If people are allowed to like problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of liking those relationships in real life, people should be allowed to express dislike for problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of being unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy.
As for compartmentalizing, that certainly happens when people ship couples despite a factor in their relationship they dislike (example; "Luke and Laura on General Hospital make a great couple, even though Luke raped Laura in the past"<--not my actual opinion, couldn't care less about General Hospital)
But not everyone is able to compartmentalize every couple, and that's ok.
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nogara119
Joined: 25 Oct 2017
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:09 pm
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razberry_yum wrote: |
Nogara-san, here's what might be different about you and others who find Seb/Ciel problematic: are you going around yelling pedophile at people who are shipping Seb/Ciel? probably not, right? That pairing squicks you, you don't support it, but you probably just leave it alone and people who ship them, regardless of their reasons. You probably won't actively attack people for it like so many fans do these days. I think that's what is making the general animanga fandom toxic these days. It's a type of bullying and kind of disgusting on its own. |
You are right, that I mostly ignore it. I avoid that crap like the plague. If someone likes that sort of thing then that's fine. *shrugs*
But I think what people are trying to say to you and please, don't take offense at this...is that it kind of sounds like you're in the camp of forcing creators to put in relationships that might not necessarily ring true for the story.
I mean, you're not wrong that there's always room for LGBT representation....but again, most anime is made for Japanese audiences; I'm sure someone will correct me on this, but LGBT representation over there is quite different.
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yeah, there are people who still think Viktor and Yuuri are straight. Which is fine since I guess there's still some room for that kind of interpretation...it's not like they've had sex or gotten married yet. If these same people applied the same burden of proof to hetero couples in anime, I'd feel just a little bit better. |
I mean, Stevie Wonder could see what that relationship was a mile away...lol. And I'm not normally a yaoi person.
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Wahappen
Joined: 25 Aug 2017
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 10:24 pm
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[quote="Vaisaga"]
ArnisEnthusiast wrote: |
Funny then that they threw in a random sex scene between Sebastian and a woman. |
"Several women" to be exact, let's not forget that Black Butler is Shonen, Ciel even has potential love interests, little dude has a harem.
Wait no seriously for those anti's:
why cant they just stfu.
Seriously Hentai is a seafood platter full of amazing stuffs like pedophilia or anything-Japanese related but when it's Yaoi or shzzle, everyone loses their minds.
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razberry_yum
Joined: 30 Jun 2007
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 11:32 pm
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Agent355 wrote: | You launched a pre-emptive attack, then...There were no attacks or aspersions towards fans in that statement, just PsychoPearl's opinion against adult/child romances.You responded by attacking PsychoPearl's ability to distinguish between reality and fantasy... |
I actually edited down my original post just because I didn't want to seem like I was necessarily attacking PsychoPearl but rather just vehemently disagreeing with her assessment of the relationship. My point was to protest the application of a very human crime towards anime characters who aren't human beings. When people do that it usually indicates to me that they cannot separate reality from fiction, but you're right, that is probably too hasty of me so I will apologize to PsychoPearl-san for basically accusing her of being delusional. I regret my tone and delivery but I still want to reiterate that the term pedophilia, imho, simply should not be applied to fictional characters.
Agent355 wrote: | If people are allowed to like problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of liking those relationships in real life, people should be allowed to express dislike for problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of being unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy. |
True, I'll take a softer tack from now on when I run across folks like that.
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razberry_yum
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Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 11:53 pm
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nogara119 wrote: | But I think what people are trying to say to you and please, don't take offense at this...is that it kind of sounds like you're in the camp of forcing creators to put in relationships that might not necessarily ring true for the story. |
I'm not offended, I'm more disappointed in myself for failing at conveying my point to the degree that all you were able to gather from what I've been saying is that idea, which is completely not what I mean at all. First of all, I absolutely am not forcing creators to do anything...a, I don't have that power, and b, I have no such right to do that. Secondly, I also really, really don't see creators being forced to do anything either. Where is the evidence that this is occurring? Are there necessarily more gay characters in mainstream anime just because there are maybe more yaoi-friendly fans? I don't feel the industry has changed at all so I'm at a lost why anyone would think fans have really any bearing on the current animanga climate. I mean, even with the whole Tokyo Ghoul incident which is truly abhorrent and I have no qualms calling fans who threaten creators freaking psycopaths, but ultimately, it didn't force any change in how the creator will continue to portray Taneki, right? That's a GOOD thing, but my point is that no one is capable of imposing their will on anyone else, especially not to the level of the creators changing the nature of their characters or course of their story, least of all a nobody like me.
And my call for more gay representation in anime isn't meant as a demand, per se, but more a hope. You're right, Japanese society is not like Western society, and it might be decades, if ever, that we would see a change in how they view the LGBTQ sector of society, if they even care about it at all, but it doesn't hurt for someone to open the door a little just to show, look, it's not too bad, the world won't end just because there's a few good gay characters in mainstream anime, much like what Yuri on Ice essentially did. Again, this is all just my own wishful thinking...I know change will take a long while. I am absolutely not trying to force anything on anyone. God knows I don't have that kind of power.
nogara119 wrote: | I mean, Stevie Wonder could see what that relationship was a mile away...lol. And I'm not normally a yaoi person. |
Ohhh there was a time during where even you saying that would have a few fans calling you an idiot and delusional, etc. It's gotten better but I do still see the occasional comment about them not being gay, just affectionate. Lol.
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rizuchan
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:24 am
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Hoppy800 wrote: | If you tell the fangirls to pipe down, men would approach yaoi (at least the non-sexual type) a lot more, that's 50% of the problem. Remember this is a non-issue with yuri and most of us aren't homophobes. However, there's another thing turning men off, it's just too rapey at times in non-hentai works, again, this is not much of an issue with yuri, is it that hard to make a sweet love story like yuri just with the genders reversed and have it sell. |
There are a lot of women that like yuri, and there are plenty of women that have yuri ships (I have a few myself), but I'd say that most female anime fans are pretty turned off by yuri-baiting. It's not a non-issue at all.
And while yuri stories themselves tend to be super sweet innocent girls who just like to hold hands and kiss (which is still problematic for other reasons) a lot of yuri-baiting stuff is just as rapey as yaoi. Flipping skirts and boob-grabbing is sexual assault, even though anime likes to use it as a joke.
We just don't whine about it (except in the company of other female fans) because there's no point. We couldn't watch anime if we flat out refused to deal with boob grabs. So, pardon us for getting a little excited when there's a bit of side content in mainstream shows that actually targets us instead of men for once instead of blaming teh womenz for ruining your guy shows or whatever.
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stilldemented
Joined: 16 May 2015
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 10:48 am
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I feel we should take into account that the internet makes the fandom discourse more confrontational than it is in all actuality. Shipping exists in that same realm of the two teenagers gossiping in the corner about whether so-and-so and whats-their-face are going to hook up. And most of the time, people will think it's entertaining and just let it be because there's other fish to fry.
The internet makes it so that it seems like everyone and their brother, sister, mother, father, cousin, best friend, pastor, acquaintance, and local serial killer are invested in the legitimacy of the bond between so-and-so and whats-their-face...and then suddenly you feel like that person on the outside looking in wondering why in the world this matters. So you speak out against your better judgment just to see if you're crazy for not caring or if the world's crazy for caring. (More often than not we assume the latter.)
That's when stereotypes start coming into play. If you've seen enough of an argument you start building a profile and painting a picture of that person based on what you've seen in the past. Oh...they're THAT person...And they never fail to live up to expectations.
Someone is advocating your ship? Well they're just like you and you can totally understand why they are being so emphatic and acknowledge what they are trying to accomplish. Someone looking down on your ship? They're being obnoxious and not taking others' feelings into account. They are rejecting your position. They reject your ideas. They reject you. And that's why the argument spirals out of control and people start taking potshots at one another.
We start lacing our words with sarcasm as a defense mechanism. The argument grows more and more bitter. And we may even go there...just to prove that they are the terrible person so that we can be in the right. That way...We are right. Our ideas are right. Our position is right...I am right. I have value. I'm not alone...
This extends into everything. Shipping, politics, religion, Thursday dinner, or whatever. We're all a little temperamental about the silliest of things. We can even be temperamental about how we're not so temperamental. And since we tend to do it subconsciously, we may not even realize we're doing it. Hahaha.
Suffice it to say, we tend to try and control the outcome of any conflict. We want to come out of it smelling like roses. But I feel it is important to acknowledge when we're letting our emotions get the best of us and we're being unfair. Too much pride and vainglory create ripple effects. They sour everyone to you, haunting you in all your future endeavors. And people cannot forget when given little reason to forgive.
This became a lot more existential than I anticipated.
Don't even know if it all applies to the topic anymore.
That's my fortune cookie of the day.
(Disclaimer: Although I use 'you' at one point for dramatic effect, this isn't directed at anyone. But on that note, one would be surprised at how many conflicts arise just by adding 'you' in an internet feud. Makes things feel more personal than originally intended. XP)
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Agent355
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 12:59 pm
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stilldemented, that's brilliant, you should get it published somewhere!
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Chrono1000
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 4:15 pm
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Wahappen wrote: |
ArnisEnthusiast wrote: |
Funny then that they threw in a random sex scene between Sebastian and a woman. |
"Several women" to be exact, let's not forget that Black Butler is Shonen, Ciel even has potential love interests, little dude has a harem. |
I have only watched the anime but his childhood friend Elizabeth was the only one near his age and what I mostly remember is that she had the Princess Peach problem of needing to be constantly rescued. Black Butler is mostly veiled implications so it barely qualifies as BL anime. Still I have the suspicion that a lot more people would be troubled by the veiled implications if Ciel had been a girl. As it is making loli jokes in a show such as WorldEnd will get far more criticism than Black Butler. To be clear I like the show and it is entertaining but saying that Black Butler is Shonen doesn't really say anything about the show. At this point Shonen just means that it is published in a Shonen magazine.
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harminia
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 5:50 pm
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Agent355 wrote: |
stilldemented, that's brilliant, you should get it published somewhere! |
Agreed! Well done, stilldemented!
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lebrel
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:13 pm
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Yana Toboso wrote: | It's weird how male couples are immediately labelled as "for fujoshi" and also weird how people will deny them. I think some deniers mean the romance is not the main point of the story, but there are so many wonderful stories about same-sex romance... |
Does anyone else get the feeling she's talking about Yuri On Ice (AKA "it's just a sports show, these rotten women can find yaoi in everything")?
Agent355 wrote: | Fictional characters can't be positive representations of queer relationships when the relationships are good, but imaginary when their relationships crosses the line and becomes problematic and negative. It's like saying that people shouldn't be upset at "rape=love" tropes in yaoi while also saying that fans should be glad for the gay representation in rapey yaoi. |
Fiction is always imaginary, regardless of whether someone finds the story positive or negative, and authors can use fiction for different ends in different stories. Some BL is about fluffy love stories and gay issues, some is about angst-ridden relationship melodrama and emotional trauma, and any given author can write some of both. I don't see anyone claiming that Gengoroh Tagame's My Brother's Husband shouldn't be regarded as an excellent series that is trying to promote positive depictions of gay men and raise gay issues just because Tagame is also famous for a large oeuvre of (explicitly pornographic) stories in which men get brutally gang-raped and sexually tortured by other men.*
Agent355 wrote: | If people are allowed to like problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of liking those relationships in real life, people should be allowed to express dislike for problematic relationships in fiction without being accused of being unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy. |
The issue there is that a lot of the objections are based on the idea that the readers can't distinguish between reality and fantasy; "forceful seduction" stories normalize rape, "domineering love interest" stories normalize domestic abuse, shotabait subtext normalizes child molestation, etc. (But for some reason everyone agrees that fictional murder and bloodshed do not normalize violence...)
* Seriously: we've had some pretty extreme gay men's manga in print in English for a couple of years now, why is nobody complaining about that stuff?
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musouka
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:38 pm
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lebrel wrote: | Does anyone else get the feeling she's talking about Yuri On Ice (AKA "it's just a sports show, these rotten women can find yaoi in everything")? |
Actually, I believe the context in this case is referring to Banana Fish. Japanese twitter has been having a lot of back and forth about the suitability of labeling Banana Fish BL (and lamenting that fujoshi might taint it)
Incredible that even without context, the beginning of this thread managed to reenact the complaints I saw almost exactly, right down to dubious, arrogant assumption that they are the default audience for every anime/manga ever created.
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lebrel
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:47 pm
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musouka wrote: | Actually, I believe the context in this case is referring to Banana Fish. Japanese twitter has been having a lot of back and forth about the suitability of labeling Banana Fish BL (and lamenting that fujoshi might taint it)
Incredible that even without context, the beginning of this thread managed to reenact the complaints I saw almost exactly, right down to dubious, arrogant assumption that they are the default audience for every anime/manga ever created. |
Wait, is it Japanese guys doing this? I've heard Banana Fish was fairly popular with men, but that's ridiculous...
If it's women, then, uh...
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musouka
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:01 pm
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lebrel wrote: |
Wait, is it Japanese guys doing this? I've heard Banana Fish was fairly popular with men, but that's ridiculous...
If it's women, then, uh... |
From what I saw, it was a mixture of both. Women tended to frame it as "I don't think of it as BL." Male fans tended to frame it as more as "ugh, I bet fujoshi are going to think Ash and Eiji are gay."
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Velshtein
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 8:59 pm
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razberry_yum wrote: |
Lord Oink wrote: | The elephant in the room is the fact the vast majority of people in the world are straight. If 99% of a culture are not gay, it's not exactly a huge leap in logic to pair up a harem MC with one of the girls like pairing him up with his male buddy would. You can't really 'force' heterosexual relationships in anime any more than you can say anime 'forces' Japanese characters on us. It's simply a reflection of the culture it was made in. |
I dunnnoooo, there have been some straight pairings in anime that I've felt have been "forced" upon us (*cough* Naruto *cough*). So I think it might be based on our POV on what makes sense. How the male character was originally presented may also have an impact on whether or not their eventual pairing with a female is logical. If there was no real indication of his sexuality to begin with or it seemed flexible, then it might make just as much sense pairing him with a harem girl (why harem again?) than with one of his male buddies.
Btw, you think 99% of Japanese people are not gay? That sounds kinda high. Lol. But with the Japanese culture, and Asian culture in general, I think old social norms/practices/customs and even societal repression do play a big part as well. So it might not just be a matter of different forms of media reflecting the truth of their society, but more like media being forced to reflect what they want the truth of their society to be, even though it's not really. |
Like it or not, 99% of Japanese people being straight is not far from the truth at all. Gay people make up only 2-3% of the human population, and thus it's wishful thinking to think that Asian culture is somehow repressing the true number of gay people.
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