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Why are characters in romance anime always so damn stupid?!


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omar235



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 12:59 am Reply with quote
Stupidman007 wrote:
How does trying to kill yourself ever make you cool? From the beginning of the final sequence, I knew that an easy way to get spoiler[Asa to use her power was to threaten to suicide], but I was also telling myself that if the story goes that way, I'm gonna hate it. I find the thought of suicide to be a weakness, if someone has to commit suicide to accomplish anything, then that person has basically succumbed to the idea of him/herself being unable to do anything else.


He was sure that she would save her and since the only way to save her life was to get her to use her magic then it was more of an act of bravery than suicide since he wasn't depressed but instead willing to sacrifice his life for the one he loved.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:09 am Reply with quote
omar235 wrote:
Stupidman007 wrote:
How does trying to kill yourself ever make you cool? From the beginning of the final sequence, I knew that an easy way to get spoiler[Asa to use her power was to threaten to suicide], but I was also telling myself that if the story goes that way, I'm gonna hate it. I find the thought of suicide to be a weakness, if someone has to commit suicide to accomplish anything, then that person has basically succumbed to the idea of him/herself being unable to do anything else.


He was sure that she would save her and since the only way to save her life was to get her to use her magic then it was more of an act of bravery than suicide since he wasn't depressed but instead willing to sacrifice his life for the one he loved.


EXACTLY!!! Asa was gonna die, and it was slow and painful, so the only way to save the one he loves was to threaten his own life and the fastest way to that point was suicide and on top of that, do it where nobody could help them because nobody was around, now if you (Stupidman007) find self sacrifice (even if its suicie) for your loved one a weakness then YOU my 007 have a smigin of a problem with mumblejumble.

to Stupidman007
and for Ecchi, Ecchi easily fits into ANY anime that the creator wants it to be in, If the creator writes it into the story than it fits. and some of the comedic portions come straight from it.

and for your concept of AIR and Kanon, i agree they are both great but they're not exactly romance rather than just drama.


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Azathrael



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unhealthyman wrote:
Seriously, I'm watching KGNE at the moment, and like in all soaps and so on, every problem comes up from people not talking to each other. I want to just go in there and slap some sense into people.

The female characters are often pretty damn pathetic as well... I suppose that is a different issue of how women are portrayed in anime as well, but I find it infuriating that they are so subservient and timid.

It is an effective anime and all with involving character developments, but all they ever seem to do is sit about in awkward silences not saying what needs to be said. After the effectiveness of episodes 1 and 2, they have just been seriously wimpy and annoying. It seems to be insipid women and indecisive useless men and the problems generated by them...

Also, the other 'novelty' characters in it (I guess to lighten the mood,) like the nurses and the waitresses, are just stupid and shallow as well.

I guess I can't really say how I would react to a spoiler[ love triangle between a girl just come out of a coma and her best friend...] But still, it's irritating me no end.

This is what is also appealing about 'soap' style stories though - the fact that they get you riled up and involved, so I guess it is better to be irritated by the characters and their situations than disinterested...


Melodrama:

1. A dramatic form that does not observe the laws of cause and effect and that exaggerates emotion and emphasizes plot or action at the expense of characterization.

Watch any famous Korean drama because KGNE is like a miniaturization of them. But then if you can't handle the lack of realism in KGNE I doubt you can handle real actors playing characters who all lack common sense.

/I <3 good melodrama
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Stupidman007



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:18 am Reply with quote
To omar235 and Animefreak6969, I think we simply have a difference in beliefs and judgements, because I didn't find that sequence realistic nor believable. Anyway, I don't want to turn this discussion to an argument about Shuffle!.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:27 am Reply with quote
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To omar235 and Animefreak6969, I think we simply have a difference in beliefs and judgements, because I didn't find that sequence realistic nor believable. Anyway, I don't want to turn this discussion to an argument about Shuffle!.


No argument Very Happy I just wanted to explain the position...if you don't see it that way its fine. But think about this if your loved one had a problem like the one Asa had and you had no time to form a plan and you knew that she would save you wouldn't you do that. I mean she was being so stubborn about not using her magic. Really its not a suicide, for the same reason jumping in front of a bullet or jumping on a grenade is not a suicide. He was just doing it to save her not because he was going Emo on us. Laughing
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Animefreak6969



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:28 am Reply with quote
omar235 wrote:
Stupidman007 wrote:
To omar235 and Animefreak6969, I think we simply have a difference in beliefs and judgements, because I didn't find that sequence realistic nor believable. Anyway, I don't want to turn this discussion to an argument about Shuffle!.


No argument Very Happy I just wanted to explain the position...if you don't see it that way its fine. But think about this if your loved one had a problem like the one Asa had and you had no time to form a plan and you knew that she would save you wouldn't you do that. I mean she was being so stubborn about not using her magic. Really its not a suicide, for the same reason jumping in front of a bullet or jumping on a grenade is not a suicide. He was just doing it to save her not because he was going Emo on us. Laughing


ya...so end of SHUFFLE! discussion. although "realistic" isnt much of something we can think about in a show with demons, gods, and magic.

NOW GO WATCH AI YORI AOSHI
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Zalis116_v2



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 2:09 am Reply with quote
Stupidman007 wrote:
Basically, as a guy, I want the male lead to represent us as someone who's cool and worth something. An indecisive guy is well, just annoying to look at.
Except, if you're watching shounen romance or H-Game adaptations, you're completely barking up the wrong tree if you're looking for respectable male figures. And it's the anime's fault--let's face it, these kinds of romances are aimed at awkward Japanese teenaged boys and/or awkward Japanese 20something otaku, and their intention is to create male leads that the target audience can identify with. They don't want to create a male lead that will evoke a "This guy is so much better with women than I'll ever be, I'm gonna go cry in the corner and watch something else" response, which would be bad for business.

I've always said that if you want respectable male leads, you've got to turn to shoujo anime, in order to find guys like Aishiteru ze Baby's Kippei, Marmalade Boy's Yuu, Kodocha's Akito, or Fruits Basket's Kyou (&Shigure, Hatori, Aayame, Hatsuharu, Yuki, etc). Heck, even most of the guys in Fushigi Yuugi are better than the Keitarou's, Kei's, Kyousuke's, and Keiichi's of the world. Believe me, I like seeing guys I can respect in anime, but even after all that, I'm still a sentimental sap and thus a big fan of KgNE and various other hyper-melodramatic series.
It's easy to armchair-quarterback anime romances and say, "Well, I would've done this and that differently, this guy's a wuss," but these characters are supposed to be flawed and not 100% realistic. Besides, who wants to watch a romance story where a guy is running late at work, calls his live-in girlfriend, and tells her when he'll be coming home, whereupon the couple proceeds to eat dinner, watch the evening news, get down to some lovin', and go to bed? BORING. In short, if the characters weren't "stupid" to some extent, we wouldn't have a story Sad

And I have to disagree that Kimagure Orange Road is sooo head-and-shoulders above modern-day "overrated" anime like KgNE. It's a classic, I've seen it, I liked it, but there's more "progress" in 2 episodes of KgNE than in 48 episodes, 8 OVAs, and 1.75 movies of KOR. For all of Takayuki's indecisiveness, at least it's concluded in 14 episodes. OTOH, the waverings and "sonna wake de ari" from Kyousuke go on for four times that length, even though Kyousuke's "girl of choice" is pretty clearly telegraphed to the audience early on. That means that it's 48+ episodes of attempting to conceal psychic powers, keeping horndog friends off younger sisters, misadventures, and scene after scene of spoiler[Hikaru] playing an Interrupt card against any of Kyousuke and spoiler[Madoka's] "special moments." At least KgNE attempts to keep the audience guessing which girl he'll go with until the last episode. *goes off to rewatch KgNE before the Rumbling Hearts DVD comes in*
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 2:16 am Reply with quote
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Except, if you're watching shounen romance or H-Game adaptations, you're completely barking up the wrong tree if you're looking for respectable male figures. And it's the anime's fault--let's face it, these kinds of romances are aimed at awkward Japanese teenaged boys and/or awkward Japanese 20something otaku, and their intention is to create male leads that the target audience can identify with. They don't want to create a male lead that will evoke a "This guy is so much better with women than I'll ever be, I'm gonna go cry in the corner and watch something else" response, which would be bad for business.


i dont think most of these people could identify with anything like the main characters of these animes. And who the hell thinks like that? and how can you watch something else while crying in a corner? YOU CANT SEE!!! while crying in a corner
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Stupidman007



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 2:33 am Reply with quote
Zalis116_v2 wrote:
Except, if you're watching shounen romance or H-Game adaptations, you're completely barking up the wrong tree if you're looking for respectable male figures. And it's the anime's fault--let's face it, these kinds of romances are aimed at awkward Japanese teenaged boys and/or awkward Japanese 20something otaku, and their intention is to create male leads that the target audience can identify with. They don't want to create a male lead that will evoke a "This guy is so much better with women than I'll ever be, I'm gonna go cry in the corner and watch something else" response, which would be bad for business.

I've always said that if you want respectable male leads, you've got to turn to shoujo anime


haha, I really do find Shoujo titles to be a lot better than the average Harem title. But it's never about the romance, rather the feel-good moments that they bring that I really like. I'm the kind of person who loves when relationships go right, and everyone live happily ever after. When it comes to relationships going wrong, like these romance anime in question, I just want to puke. It's not about relating with the characters or anything, I just hate seeing people with problems on TV, as if we don't see enough already in real life.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 2:45 am Reply with quote
Oh c'mon you just dont like seing relationships going wrong or ending bad? I guess thats why you're not into Harem or Romance titles then. But that also means you cant really judge one because you're basically against it.

NOW PUKE and go watch AI YORI AOSHI
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Stupidman007



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 3:04 am Reply with quote
Animefreak6969 wrote:
Oh c'mon you just don't like seing relationships going wrong or ending bad? I guess thats why you're not into Harem or Romance titles then. But that also means you can't really judge one because you're basically against it.


lol, best I can do is give my opinion. You know, it's not too hard to make a Harem or Romance title that actually have relationships go right. But then again, it might not be so interesting would it?
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 3:25 am Reply with quote
Stupidman007 wrote:
Animefreak6969 wrote:
Oh c'mon you just don't like seing relationships going wrong or ending bad? I guess thats why you're not into Harem or Romance titles then. But that also means you can't really judge one because you're basically against it.


lol, best I can do is give my opinion. You know, it's not too hard to make a Harem or Romance title that actually have relationships go right. But then again, it might not be so interesting would it?


i guess thats true in all 3 things that you said.......Now i WANT to see a Harem and/or Romance anime that everything ends fine and there isnt much trouble through out the show.........just to see how'd they try to make it interesting and entertaining. Actually if its a Harem then that means the guy, by the end, gets EVERY girl and EVERY girl is happily fine by it. and SHUFFLE! had that opportunity because God's and Demons practiced Polygamy!!! which means the Princess's and Primula would've been fine with it, and Asa might not've cared, but Kaede.....damn nevermind

now.......(here it comes) go.......(we're almost there) watch (uh oh!! no periodsonthis one) AI YORI AOSHI
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Zalis116_v2 wrote:
let's face it, these kinds of romances are aimed at awkward Japanese teenaged boys and/or awkward Japanese 20something otaku, and their intention is to create male leads that the target audience can identify with. They don't want to create a male lead that will evoke a "This guy is so much better with women than I'll ever be, I'm gonna go cry in the corner and watch something else" response, which would be bad for business.


Well, that was blunt, but true. Unfortunately, this would also apply to me... And I was able to somewhat identify with the main character.

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It's easy to armchair-quarterback anime romances and say, "Well, I would've done this and that differently, this guy's a wuss," but these characters are supposed to be flawed and not 100% realistic.


I actually don't really understand why people say this is unrealistic because the this... I mean, people in real life ARE stupid, and I can see this being more believable because of that. At least more than most other romances I have seen (not limited to anime. Truthfully, I don't really watch a whole lot outside of anime, so I'm not exactly an expert on it). Of course, I've never actually been in a relationship before, so who am I to say that this is realistic? But I do know other people who have been in relationships and have made some pretty dumb decisions...

Kelly wrote:
One title I would suggest to everyone is Voices of a Distant Star. It's only a half hour long, but better than most of the other anime I have seen.


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Kelly wrote:
One title I would suggest to everyone is Voices of a Distant Star. It's only a half hour long, but better than most of the other anime I have seen.


Fixed.


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Zalis116_v2 wrote:
And I have to disagree that Kimagure Orange Road is sooo head-and-shoulders above modern-day "overrated" anime like KgNE. It's a classic, I've seen it, I liked it, but there's more "progress" in 2 episodes of KgNE than in 48 episodes, 8 OVAs, and 1.75 movies of KOR.

I completely disagree with you here.

Like in KgnE, the central plot element in KOR is a love triangle. But the big difference between both series is that KOR - between all the filler episodes with lots of misunderstandings - has *real* character and story development, whereas KgnE hasn't any really. KOR doesn't rely on kitsch telenovela-style drama just for drama's sake. The chemistry between Kyôsuke and Madoka is right there from the start, that's very obvious, but it's gradually developed over the lenght of the series (listen for example how she talks to him at the end of episode 19, the island episode. She starts to talk about her fears, whereas that hasn't been the case in previous episodes. That's just one of many moments which make the chemistry between the two leads believable).

The "progress" in KgnE - like you attest the series - isn't really shown to us, the audience, at any time, because the series writers didn't had the guts to continue the story right after what happened to Haruka*. How Takayuki, Mitsuki and all the others have to deal with the situation on the long run, that would have been far more interesting for the character developments and the plot in general, instead of jumping right into the future and setting a stage for Takayuki to choose between the two girls, like in a dating-sim. What we get is melodrama pushed at it's extreme - to grounds even Douglas Sirk wouldn't have gone.

* (I don't buy the few flashbacks between Takayuki and Mitsuki - where she literally brought him back to life with spoiler[sex] - as plot "progress". It was a cheap plot gimmick, as much as Takayuki's big depression).

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At least KgNE attempts to keep the audience guessing which girl he'll go with until the last episode.

Well, I don't know about you, but for me it was clear from the very beginning with which girl Takayuki would end up. No surprises here.
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